Saying goodbye is always hard, and whether it’s to your family pet, or the heat of summer, by saying farewell it inevitably brings change.
Change is one of the hardest things us as humans learn to deal with and although it comes easier with age, some change can still scare us to the core. However as we grow we come to terms with the fact that as much as we want to, we cannot control change.
It’s hard to accept but it is the truth, so holding on to a time in your life for too long or panicking about what will happen when change strikes is completely and utterly useless! Now I am in no way saying I have the art of “going with the flow” down to a T, but when you stop being so afraid of change, it becomes easier to handle.
Even though you may be sat there thinking “well some changes are far more easier to deal with than others?” and yes you are completely right. But the point it to allow your self to live in the present despite knowing some changes may be just around the corner.
The beauty of being human is we can experience thousands of wonderful days, moments, weeks all with the knowledge of knowing it won’t last forever. But diving into these moments worry-free is what makes them so fantastic. So lets replicate this feeling of being care free for areas of our lives where these worries are more evident.
Change is coming, and it maybe something incredible or it maybe not, but either way we will never be able to predict it.
So live fearlessly, and you will become fearless.